This is my mother guilt (for today at least)

http://www.essentialbaby.com.au/toddler/caring-for-toddler/are-you-really-there-for-your-kids-or-are-you-on-your-iphone-20120516-1yq2m.html

The post was titled ‘How To Miss A Childhood’ by the bloggerHands Free Mama. It told of an email she received from a concerned reader, who has been caring for babies since 1977. It began …

“I can recall a time when you were out with your children you were really with them. You engaged in a back and forth dialog even if they were pre-verbal. You said, ‘Look at the bus, see the doggie, etc.’ Now I see you on the phone, pushing your kids on the swings while distracted by your devices. You think you are spending time with them but you are not present really. When I see you pick up your kids at day care while you’re on the phone, it breaks my heart. They hear your adult conversations. What do they overhear? What is the message they receive? I am not important; I am not important.”

SmILe SaY cHeEsE ;)

Be happy
Don't be snappy
It's Friday have fun
Go for a run or sit in the sun
Show your norks
Be proud they're not forks porks or dorks
Be happy
Don't be snappy
Love your hubby
Give him a special rubby ;)
It's a happy day
Everything will be ok
So smile and get out there
Show your beautiful flair
Have a fun weekend sit on your head
Or sit on someone else's in bed
Be happy
Don't be snappy


Mwah xoxoxo

If that made you smile my job is done!

Husband kissed a slut

I never thought I would be saying this, but my husband was kissed by a slut. Sorry but thats all I can call her now. She confessed her love to him and he started to having a crush on her, he had feelings for her then a month later started flirting with her at a party and she kissed him. He said he liked it but it was wrong.

He hide it from me because he said he loved me and didn't want to hurt me. But is it really because he would have lost everything? I confronted the slut. I yelled and screamed at her and told her how much of a horrible person she is. I want her to move far away, but she will always be around. He doesn't understand why I expect him never to speak to her again. He thinks I am being silly. The fact he formed feelings of lust for her is what hurts the most. He was never the cheating type. I am so shocked. He stopped the kiss, it never went any further but then again he didn't tell me for months and he was still in contact with her.

She is so much better looking then me and I feel that I am the problem. Every time he see's an attractive girl he says hot stuff. I want him to look at me again and remember how beautiful I am. I do so much for him and I love him more then anything. I don't want to separate but I don't know if I can ever trust him again. I feel so betrayed.

Please help me - has this happened to you? How did you forgive your husband?

What the hell am I doing?????

I am torturing myself, and I should be ashamed of myself. FB should be banned from my life, its just allowing me to be slapped in the face over and over. You use it to talk to me about stuff that 2 ppl who are in relationships (different relationships) shouldn't be talking about. You shouldn't be sending me messages to meet up. I have no intention of sleeping with you. Its already gone way further than it should have. Far out, I wish I could just say no to you. But you're a light in my day, I love the way you make me feel. I smile at the thought of you. But it tears my heart out that we can't be together. If only we'd acted on it years ago....who knows what might have been.

AND you suck!

Antenatal depression is fucked.

My Confession

I'm lazy.

My DH does so much around the house. I'm grumpy towards him, I sleep in while he gets up early. He works so hard and he cooks most nights.

I'm overweight, unfit, don't eat the right foods and have no willpower to change things. My diets last 2 weeks and then I give up.

I hate feeling the way I do

Hello? Is there anybody there?

Where did the replies to comments go?  I asked for help and received some replies but now they've been deleted.  Whats going on?