Husband kissed a slut

I never thought I would be saying this, but my husband was kissed by a slut. Sorry but thats all I can call her now. She confessed her love to him and he started to having a crush on her, he had feelings for her then a month later started flirting with her at a party and she kissed him. He said he liked it but it was wrong.

He hide it from me because he said he loved me and didn't want to hurt me. But is it really because he would have lost everything? I confronted the slut. I yelled and screamed at her and told her how much of a horrible person she is. I want her to move far away, but she will always be around. He doesn't understand why I expect him never to speak to her again. He thinks I am being silly. The fact he formed feelings of lust for her is what hurts the most. He was never the cheating type. I am so shocked. He stopped the kiss, it never went any further but then again he didn't tell me for months and he was still in contact with her.

She is so much better looking then me and I feel that I am the problem. Every time he see's an attractive girl he says hot stuff. I want him to look at me again and remember how beautiful I am. I do so much for him and I love him more then anything. I don't want to separate but I don't know if I can ever trust him again. I feel so betrayed.

Please help me - has this happened to you? How did you forgive your husband?

What the hell am I doing?????

I am torturing myself, and I should be ashamed of myself. FB should be banned from my life, its just allowing me to be slapped in the face over and over. You use it to talk to me about stuff that 2 ppl who are in relationships (different relationships) shouldn't be talking about. You shouldn't be sending me messages to meet up. I have no intention of sleeping with you. Its already gone way further than it should have. Far out, I wish I could just say no to you. But you're a light in my day, I love the way you make me feel. I smile at the thought of you. But it tears my heart out that we can't be together. If only we'd acted on it years ago....who knows what might have been.

AND you suck!

Antenatal depression is fucked.

My Confession

I'm lazy.

My DH does so much around the house. I'm grumpy towards him, I sleep in while he gets up early. He works so hard and he cooks most nights.

I'm overweight, unfit, don't eat the right foods and have no willpower to change things. My diets last 2 weeks and then I give up.

I hate feeling the way I do

Hello? Is there anybody there?

Where did the replies to comments go?  I asked for help and received some replies but now they've been deleted.  Whats going on?

I wish

I wish I was still single. I wish I didn't have kids. I love my kids dearly but I wish for a chance at life and being an adult on my own without children, wihtout a partner...just me. Every day I hope that I don't wake up or that I get hit by a car or something, just so I don't have to live this same everyday over and over again. Being an adult and a wife and mum is not easy and not all rosy and nothing like I expected it to be. I want to start my whole life over again. But I can't. So I want it all over. But I don't have the guts to do that either because I am spineless. I am over putting on a brave face.

How does this work?

Are we allowed to comment on the posts made here? Do people who have posted anon want to get feedback? Because I think it would be wonderful if we could get some feed back on our anon posts.

Am i Bad?

I just found a girls name I didnt know on my Partners phone and deleted it.

Oh yay

Don't you just love ending the evening with a fight.  It's possibly even better when you start the morning with a fight.  If you can do both then you must be super talented. 

Yay, I'm talented.  Then why do I feel like crap?  Oh right, fighting.  It's not my thing and makes me feel like crap.  I guess he knows that though.

I'm an emotional wreck

Yesterday was a bad day.
I was upset for most of the day, eating everthing in my path and can't stop crying.
I'm so lonely, I have no idea I can just call up for a chat or invite over. Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I make friends easily like some people? And the friends I do make why do they exclude me?

I'm having an affair

Started out emotional. Now its turned physical. Only kissing. But as much as I'd like it to stay that way, I'm not entirely sure it will.

Someone has to be first

So why shouldn't it be me?  I'm never first in my own life so this makes a change.

Speaking of changes, there have been a few recently.  Some for the better, some I'm still just plain getting used to.  Given my first paragraph it probably doesn't surprise anyone to hear that most of these changes were not made with my best interests in mind.  I'm not even sure that some of them were in our family's best interest.  Still, it's been done so I may as well "suck it up, princess" and just get on with it.  I guess its a case of getting used to them, accepting them and deciding to make the best of it all.  I'm pretty good at that but it comes awfully close to denying my own wants, wishes, hopes and needs.

Story of my life actually.

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